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Winford T. Failner:
Brothers and Sisters, we are happy to welcome
you here at these services and we hope the Lord will be here with His spirit
to pay our tribute to Brother Newman. The services are being held in the Belvedere
Ward. Brother Burgess is a member of the Glendale First Park Ward. Brother Allen
is presiding in this ward and I am officiating as a counselor in the Glendale
Park First Ward. Dr. John Blaine Keddington is at the organ. Our opening prayer
will be given by Brother Harold Weed. He is an uncle of Carol.
Harold Weed:
Our kind and Heavenly Father, we bow our heads in humility
and sorrow on this occasion and we ask Thy kind care and consideration while
these services are conducted. Bless those who are to officiate that they may
have Thy spirit and that the services may be conducted in accordance with Thy
mind and will. We ask at this particular time to bless the family and
those who sorrow over the loss of a son and a father and a husband. Bless the
family of this fine Brother Don Newman that they may realize that this is a
probationary stage that mortality is short and that we have the gospel plan
and our knowledge of the same to help us through this sphere of action.
We turn these services over to Thee at this time and ask
Thy kind consideration in behalf of all of us.
This we ask in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Winford T. Failner:
Our first number will be a song by Brother Allen Burgess
and he will be accompanied by Dr. John Blaine Keddington. Brother Burgess has
another engagement and would like to be excused immediately after his solo.
Following that, we will have remarks by Alvin Bowcutt, Superintendent of Plant
of the Lang Company where Brother Donald Newman worked.
Alvin Bowcutt:
My Brothers and Sisters, one never really realizes the
worth or extent of friendship until occasions like this arise. But when we look
over this audience and the many beautiful floral offerings, it is evident that
Don had many friends. This is indeed to me an honor to be asked by this good
family to occupy a few moments this afternoon on this solemn occasion. It is
an honor that I do not particularly feel worthy of and I do not entirely feel
capable of, but I hope and pray that you will bear with me and offer a prayer
in my behalf that the Lord will bless me that I may have sufficient control
over myself to perhaps leave a thought that will be of some comfort and satisfaction
to Don's lovely wife, to his sweet and patient mother, his brothers and sisters
and to my good friend and co- worker, Jeff Newman.
I first became acquainted with this good family seventeen
years ago when I came to work at the Lang Company. There, Brother Jeff was employed
as lay-out man in the layout division of the company. I learned to respect Jeff
in many ways. We have enjoyed many hours discussing our families and many trials
relative to raising them. I benefited much by his years of experience because,
brethren, he has had many and many experiences.
Jeff and his wife have surely been blessed in that they
have reared a large family. All of them are a credit to society.
I came to know Don about ten years ago. He came to work
for the Lang Company and went out on a construction job with me down at Pioche,
Nevada. From that time, my opinion of Don has been the highest. He kept himself
clean and free from the temptations of the world. He conducted himself
always so that it was an honor to say I was associated with him on that job
and the many jobs that followed. He had been a good workman. He has always been
dependable and trustworthy. Don has had an avid desire to better his conditions.
He not only worked hard in the day, but spent many hours studying at night;
always with the thought in mind of making things better for his family and becoming
more proficient on his job.
At the time of his passing, he held the position of lead
man in his department. In this position of leadership, Don has displayed the
type of leadership that is so vital to American industry today. He possessed
the ability to get along with people and to get the most out of the men that
worked with him. The men of his department cheerfully responded to his request
and recognized him as the leader.
Don was always a devoted husband and father. On many occasions
he has spoken of his sweet wife and lovingly told of little things his boys
have done. Don was truly a friend to all who knew him. The type of friend so
beautifully portrayed in the poem called "Friendship" by Ruth Margaret Gibbs.
Friendship
I want to laugh when I know you're gay,
And smile at the funny things you say.
I want to rejoice in your victory,
As though you have done it all for me,
I want to be always staunch and true,
That's the kind of friend I would be to you.
I Want to know, when I take your hand,
That here is one who will understand,
Who will feel the throb of your heart in pain,
And long for the time when it's healed again,
Who will know when shadows come your way,
And will watch with you 'til the time of day.
If others stop, as they sometimes do,
Remember a friend who will see you through.
If you tread the whole world, no matter where,
There is one to follow you with prayer.
Why, there's hardly a thing I wouldn't do,
Because, my friend, I believe in you.
Don truly believed in the good of all people.
When Don and his lovely young bride were married, they
went to the house of the Lord and were sealed for time and all eternity. Don
and his wife have so patterned their lives prior to this union so that when
the day arrived for the wedding, it was not necessary for them to delay or set
back this spiritual event. They were ready and worthy to enter the house of
the Lord and become man and wife. Their compliance to the laws have entitled
them to the blessings.
Don's life was not by chance. He was a chosen spirit and
because of his worthiness, he was born by wonderful parents under the covenant
of the priesthood. He was privileged to come to earth in this great day and
age when all knowledge was given to man are, or will be restored. Don lived
his first estate and had glory added to himself in the form of another body.
He enjoyed the association of his loved ones in that first estate the same as
he has here in mortality. The sorrow born in the separation of his loved ones
when he left the spirit world was very similar as it is today. We mourn his
parting while others rejoice in his advent into Paradise.
We must realize we are not here by chance nor is death
the end, but that we are in a second estate in a life's pattern to extend through
the eternities. May Don's wife know, and I am sure she does, that this passing
of her dear companion is not in vain, or the end, but only the blooming forth
into a more important life and as surely as I stand before you, she and Don
shall be together again. They shall know each other as they have known each
other here. They shall love each other as they have loved each other here.
Made out of flesh, God gave us a body which is vital to
our eternal progression. Our existence prior to mortality was very similar to
this. We were born a spiritual being. We lived with and loved each other in
the pre mortal existence. Then we accomplished to a point where it was necessary
for us to have this mortal body in order to make advancement, the way was made
possible for us to be born in the flesh. Our spirit was held to come forth in
these latter days when all prophecy will be fulfilled. All the Lord has given
to man is to be restored.
This, truly, is the greatest era the world has ever known.
The perfection of which will not be complete until all man come to love each
other and respect each other's rights as Gods children, even, I should say,
the family of this wonderful Brother and Sister Newman respect and love each
other. God has made us a promise that if we abide by His laws, I would say here
in mortality, there is a blessing awaiting us. Through Don's obedience to the
eternal covenant of marriage and all requirements prior to it, he shall be reunited
again with this wonderful family.
We know in the future estate we will be more happy than
we are here. The bonds of families will be stronger, our love and respect for
each other will be much greater. Our bodies will be perfected and our Joy will
be complete. So, I say to these loved ones of Dons, his passing now is bitter
but when your time comes to meet him, you will realize how sweet and complete
it was to Don. He has gone to prepare a place for you that where he is, you
may be also. We do not understand why Don was called at this early age of life,
but as it is said, "It is not the design of the Father that the earthly career
of any shall terminate until they shall have lived out their days. It is not
the design of the Father that we should all live to be old.
The reason that so few men live out their days is because
of the first of sin in the world and the time of death over the human family.
To these causes, and not the design of the Father, may we attribute the fact
that disease stops the human race in the aged, the middle-aged, the youth and
the infants.
We have no reason to mourn over a person who has honored
the priesthood, for his passing is in peace and his resurrection will be glorious.
I would like to read a poem entitled, 'There Is no Death".
There is no death.
The stars go down to rise upon some other shore
And high in heavens jeweled crown,
They shine forever more.
There is no death, I will agree
When beautiful familiar sounds
That we have learned to love
Are torn from our emotional arms.
They are not dead, they have but passed
Beyond the midst that landed us here
Into a new and larger life
Of that serener sphere.
They have but dropped their robes of clay
To put their shining raiment on.
They have not wandered far away,
They are not lost nor gone.
And ever near us they will seem,
The dear, the noble spirits tread
That all the boundless universe is life
There are no dead.
I wish to ask the blessings of the Lord on this good family
that they may see and understand the necessity of these things. It is true,
we know not why he was taken at this early age of life. We will meet him again.
The reunion will be perfect. Our love and admiration for each other will continue.
Our lives will be complete and I ask the blessings of the Lord upon them in,
the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Bishop Clarence E. Schank:
I trust that the prayer that was offered at the beginning
of this service may be answered in my behalf that I might be guided and make
a few remarks which will be of comfort and consolation to those who are called
upon at this hour. This is always a difficult task for me. However, I am very
grateful and honored that I am considered a friend of the Newman family that
I be asked to make a few remarks on this solemn occasion.
When Brother Newman called me on Saturday morning and asked
me if I would accept this assignment and finding out the death of Don, I was
deeply surprised. It came to me as a severe shock as I had not been aware of
his illness.
We have learned to love Don and the Newman family. They
have been stalwarts in this ward. Don was an active boy like the rest of the
boys in the Newman family, gone through the various priesthood quorums. He was
one of the active boys. He advanced into the various priesthood quorums and
got into the Elders' Quorum. Not long after war was declared, Don was called
into the service. There he remained, I believe, for about five years.
I remember his little brother Jim who is the youngest of
the family in the service. I remember the many letters given to me which is
typical of Don and the rest of the family. He expressed a deep appreciation
for his parents and his loved ones. In his letters, he expressed his love for
his parents, how grateful he was that they taught him the gospel. And I am sure
if I had received as many letters from Don as the other boy, I know those letters
would have carried the same sweet spirit and that great appreciation.
I am sure Don is like Nephi of old when he made the expression,
"Having been born of goodly parents and taught the language of his fathers."
I am sure Don has been taught the gospel by his loving mother and father who
were always interested in his well-being, particularly while he was in the service.
Brother and Sister Newman are stalwarts in our ward. They
are grand people. There has not been a task or assignment but what they have
responded to the fullest extent. Brother Newman has always been active as one
of the leaders in this ward. I remember one time he led the Genealogical Association
of this ward. He did exceptionally well., He has headed other organizations
such as the ward teaching, instructor in his quorum work and I know that with
the testimony that Brother and Sister Newman Have, I know that testimony has
been instilled in the hearts of their girls and boys.
It is a very marvelous thing when we consider a family
could bring eight children in the world under these troublesome times, rear
them properly and keep them in the path of righteousness. Brother and Sister
Newman have been like a mother and father chicken who carry their little brood
around with them and take good care of them. They have loved them and they have
loved and respected them. We think a lot of this Newman family.
I remember when Don came home from the service. It was
not longer after, he was very desirous of taking his young bride in the Temple
and being married there. He came to the office. I knew him then. We were very
happy to issue a recommend to him because I knew he was entitled to it and worthy
and lived his religion. As our first speaker mentioned they went to the Temple
and were sealed for time and all eternity and I wonder if we as members really
appreciate the opportunity which is ours to go to the house of the Lord and
receive our endowments. We know the first temple was built in Kirtland, Ohio
which was primarily for the purpose of the restoration of the keys of the priesthood,
the keys of the ordinances, Elijah the prophet's mission, Moses' mission, Elias'
mission was to complete in that temple. It served its purpose. The Saints were
driven out of Nauvoo where they built a magnificent temple under hardships.
A few of the brothers and sisters received endowments there then they were driven
on to these valleys of the Rocky Mountains. The first thing that was done was
to build a temple to our Heavenly Father so they might have the opportunity
of going therein and have these sacred ordinances performed in their behalf,
both for the living and for the dead.
Don had the opportunity of going into that temple and having
his wife sealed to him for time and all eternity so they might too enjoy the
patriarchal order that his father has and also the pattern was given where he
was given a plan of the patriarchal order that he should be the father of a
patriarchal world of the children of our Heavenly Father as we come down where
the various families and that of the head shows us a patriarch over his family.
It is a great opportunity for Don to have that calling and I know he has been
faithful. I know his lovely wife will be faithful and true to the covenants
which she has made.
Our Heavenly Father told His disciples at one time when
He was asked which lady this man would have in marriage, He said none of them
in the heavens, because there is no marriage given in heaven.
But here in mortality we have that opportunity to be married
for time and eternity. I wonder if we appreciate it as greatly as we should.
These are some of the beautiful truths of the gospel. The ordinance is given
to us that if we comply, it will give us the privilege of living in the Celestial
Kingdom. As our Heavenly Father has told us, there are three degrees, the Telestial,
the Terrestrial and the Celestial and all our good men and women will go to
the Terrestrial Kingdom but those who comply to all the ordinances of the gospel
will be assigned and gain entrance into the Celestial Kingdom. What a great
privilege and promise it is for us in that great promise that the Lord gave
unto the Prophet Joseph when he told all the brethren that those who received
the priesthood of our Heavenly Father would become the sons of those when they
are born and even the seed of Abraham and that all the blessings which our Heavenly
Father has in store would be given them provided they magnified their calling
in the priesthood. What a great promise our Heavenly Father has given unto His
children.
It is worth it, Brothers and Sisters. We live here but
a short time, but yet our years that we are here determines the exaltation we
have in our Heavenly Father's Kingdom.
I am sure, Don, although he has but lived a few years,
he has completed his mission well and he will be received with great joy and
happiness and there he will be privileged to complete his mission.
As our first speaker mentioned, it is difficult for us
to answer the question why these young men and women are called so early in
life. I recall my little sister was taken at the age of eight and a half, my
brother at seventeen and a half and my sister at the age of thirty-one, our
mother at sixty-four. It has brought the thought many, many times why is it
that people are taken at such an early year in life. It has given me great thought
but it has given me a greater appreciation of the gospel: It has helped me to
live more closely to our Heavenly Father because I am sure their activity, their
sincerity, their sweet living throughout their days they will receive a great
joy and happiness in exaltation in our Heavenly Father's Kingdom. They have
missed all the trials of mortality. They have missed all the sorrows, yet when
we go on to our Heavenly Father's Kingdom there are no sorrows, there are no
trials, there are no worries but advancement and progression and working out
our salvation there performing the work of our Heavenly Father.
May the Lord bless Brother and Sister Newman and their
lovely family, because they are a lovely family, their desires of serving our
Heavenly Father. They have been faithful and true and may the Lord bless them
and sustain them, comfort them in their hour of bereavement and also Don's two
little children and his lovely wife, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Winford T. Failner:
Dear Brothers and Sisters, I was asked to make a few remarks
here and while I am not a speaker by any means I would like to tell you of my
feelings of Brother Donald Newnan in our ward and his dear wife, Sister Newman.
Our ward is a very young ward. We have probably their age
as the average age in our ward. We do not have many old folks to help us along
and in our visit with Brother Donald Newman and his wife in his home, I can
remember and I would like to remember him that way, how we sat down and talked
with him as to how he could help us in our ward in the building of the Kingdom
of God here upon the earth. We talked to him about the various activities that
he had in the past and he expressed his desire to help and to make our ward
grow. Sister Newman also expressed the same. We are in the beginning of building
a new chapel. Our ward is three months old and because of the lack of facilities
in our stake and the other wards and the fast growth and the moving in of young
people, it is great and honorable to go into a home and find someone who is
willing to help to build a chapel who have not lived in the ward long and to
contribute their time and talents for the building of the kingdom here of God.
We are very grateful that they moved into our ward. Brother Newman, the father,
expressed to me how he appreciated the church, how the brothers and sisters
helped each other. That means a lot to me, too. I have learned to appreciate
the church and one of the greatest securities in the church is the knowledge
of the hereafter.
So many churches I have attended have not been that way.
Some believe that birth is the beginning and death is the end and what a great
sense of security it is to find out that that is not all there is to it. Our
spirits came here and took upon themselves a body and this is the second and
final salvation. What we do here upon this earth and now with our bodies to
gain our reward and to store treasures in heaven, treasures in heaven that no
one can take from us, no one can steal or harm in any way. Those things, I am
sure, Brother Newman will be rewarded. It will be a great rejoicing at his coming
the same as it will be a great day of rejoicing for Sister Newman.
They set a pattern here with a temple marriage, sealed
for all eternity. I do not know of any other church that I ever attended that
they did such a thing as that. And yet it is the commandment of God that we
should be sealed for all eternity for the progression to prepare ourselves for
the highest degree of glory.
Brother Newman was a service man. He went forth and served
his country, served his country for what he believed was right and served it
with his heart to give his very life if necessary to defend those principles
that we believe in in America here today, the principles that many countries
have forgotten of the truths and freedom, freedom of religion, free to worship
God as you please, go to church where you want to, the church that you like
and to search the scriptures and. read them to defend its if you believe it.
Brother Newman must have believed in that to go and offer his life for this
country to do that. Many young men have done that and we in America should certainly
appreciate that freedom that we have; go to our meetings and do the best we
can while we are here to prepare ourselves to meet our Heavenly Father.
And so, it has been a pleasure to know this family and
to meet their two young boys. I shall never forget it and especially their two
youngest ones. It always stands out in my memory how we met that night and what
a fine family for all of them to know and believe in God and to belong to this
church and to help in the progression of it.
There have been many fine things said here today by speakers
who are capable of speaking to you, but I would like to bear my testimony as
to the truthfulness of this gospel and that Joseph Smith was a prophet of God
and through his revelations have made it clear that we understand the plan of
salvation which you have heard today. Many people who do not believe that, I
do not know how they feel when this time comes, but I am sure we can be comforted
now. The Lord said, "Blessed are they who mourn for they shall be comforted."
And through our knowledge of the scriptures and the knowing that this is not
the end, it will be a great comfort to me when that time comes.
I hope the Lord will bless each and every member of this
family and bless Sister Newman that she may keep her courage and to keep the
commandments of God and to serve Him and be humble and prayerful for His guidance
and I know that each and every one of us in this chapel today will pray for
such a thing as that, that they may be comforted. I bear you this testimony
that this is the true gospel and that these are the latter days and that what
we do upon this earth and prepare ourselves to meet our Maker that we may join
together as one large happy family in the hereafter and I do it in the name
of Jesus Christ, Amen.
We will next have a song by Sister Eva Yates and she will
be accompanied by Sister Eleanor Fredrickson.
The family has asked me to be sure to express their appreciation
to all those who have attended here this day to show their respects to their
son and to her husband and for all of those who have taken part in any way to
make these services a success, they thank you from the bottom of their hearts
and their appreciation to the Relief Society of the Belvedere Ward who have
taken care of the flowers and to the First Ward Relief Society for the refreshments
and other things which would help the family in any way. They thank you very
much.
The pallbearers today are his brothers, Edward, James,
Glenn and Ray C. Newman and Carol's brothers, Marvin and Kenneth Fredrickson.
All of you who join the procession to the cemetery will
please put on your lights and drive carefully that there might not be any accidents
on the way. The dedication of the grave will be given by Patriarch John Keddington
who is an uncle of the family. This concludes our services here in the chapel.
Our closing prayer will be given by Brother Ferron Gurney, a cousin of Carols.
Ferron Gurney:
Our Father in Heaven, we at this time bow our heads before
Thee with thankful hearts unto Thee for the privilege we have had of knowing
this beloved brother, Brother Don Newman. We thank Thee, our Father, for the
good life he has lived, for the associations we have had, one with another,
with him, for these splendid services that have taken place here this day, for
the many things that have been said in his name for the praise for the good
life that he has lived.
We thank Thee, our Father in Heaven, for the peace and
Thy spirit that has been here with us and we pray Thee that Thou wilt bless
those who have been called to mourn, his wife at this time that she may be able
to see and realize that the departing of her dear loved one is but a graduation
from this life and that she will again have the privilege of joining with him
and to go on and be his life's companion there. Bless his mother and father
that they too may realize that it is the, graduation of their son, though he
has been called home before they have, that they may realize it is his time
that he may go on to the other side and continue on with his work there and
prepare for then and his wife and children who are yet to join with him.
We pray Thee, our Heavenly Father, that Thou wilt bless
this group this day as they leave this chapel that they may go on and journey
to the cemetery that no harm or accident may befall them in any way and that
his remains will be deposited in a satisfactory manner unto Thee and to those
who are left here. We pray Thee, Heavenly Father, that Thou wilt bless us with
Thy spirit to be with us and Thou wilt comfort the hearts of, all who are called
to mourn at this time and be and abide with them in their homes that they may
realize Thy blessing, Thy will in all things may be done and we do it all in
the name of Thy Son, Jesus Christ, Amen.
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